Many people seem to have the opinion that with the kind of people who go to chess club, everyone can be relatively civil and good sports.
In fact, I have experienced more drama through chess club than I have for any other activity. And trust me, even the track team, math club and drama club COMBINED can’t beat out chess club for the most tension within a closed network.
In any type of play scenario, norms should be effective in regulating a group. However, chess, as a game, leads to independent thinking far more readily than other activities. Therefore, the sort of people who play chess are inherently the type of people who don’t like to listen to others’ opinions and norms for their behavior.
Exhibit A: High school chess club. One student in particular, I’ll call him Ryan in this post, had a particular problem with insulting other students while playing them. His comments ranged from inane to extremely hurtful to the people he was playing. During club meetings, the club president and I told him to act a little nicer to the people he was playing, but he tended to ignore our advice. However, after his behavior continued even during a tournament against another school.
In response, the club president and I gathered a group of friends to confront him about his behavior. Instead of succumbing to the pressure of upperclassmen, he denied any problems with his behavior, and stated that our club president was the one who needed to change his attitude. Even with a group of around 4 students pressuring him, he refused to give in and admit fault. Had the other students and myself not intervened, the club president and Ryan would have come to blows.
Exhibit B: College Chess Club. One student in particular, I’ll call him Jake in this post, had a particular knack of insulting students who played poorly or were inexperienced at chess. The difference in this case was that rather than being an underclassman, my friends and I were the underclassmen and he was an upperclassman. As he was a very experienced player and my friends and I (all freshmen from the same class) were not particularly good at chess, we simply took his insults as they came.
One day, one of my friends (I’ll say Sam) snapped, and came to blows with Jake. Again, my other friends and myself separated the two. After this point, we talked with Jake about his behavior. Again, Jake denied any problem with his own behavior, simply stating that Sam was lucky he wasn’t going to sue him for assault. (I think it was this comment that made me realize how ridiculous this situation was.) I was the only student who told him to apologize to Sam for his behavior, but he stated that Sam would have to apologize first. Then, my friends and I simply asked him to change his behavior during club meetings, to which he responded that he couldn’t change who he was. Other people should just deal with it. Even with the support of my friends, we could not get him to admit his fault.
In conclusion, I believe that Chess, as a game, has a tendency to produce people who are “Resister Nodes”, that is, nodes that have a particular ability to reject norms that are passed through a network. Compare Chess to, say, a Soccer Team. With a soccer team, because the entire team has to work together, they need to enforce certain norms within the team to keep the team playing efficiently. In chess, however, because every player plays the game differently from one another, no norms can be transmitted through the act of play, as play is a one-on-one affair. Norms must be forced external of the interacting environment, and this causes them to be much weaker norms than those that would be formed by working towards a common goal, whether winning a soccer match, creating a magazine, or acting in a play.
There are other ways in chess club to enforce norms. In particular, if someone insults you while you play them, generally you try not to play with them again. In that case, eventually the person will run out of people to play. In this way, Resister Nodes not only reject norms, but also other links with the people around them. Chess is a fun game to play, but it has a tendency to attract certain types of people that don’t like to listen to other people’s opinions. Unless everyone is willing to get on the same page to encourage good sportsmanship, Resister Nodes can be easily formed, and have a negative impact on the club as a whole. As the current chess club vice president, this is something I need to keep an astute eye out for. If there’s any reason why chess clubs usually aren’t well attended, this is it.
Have you ever been someplace where “Resister Nodes” are easily formed? It can’t be only chess club that has this sort of drama.